Nneka (not her real name), 18, student of a famous private university recently discovered that she's pregnant. She is very confused and wants your advise. Please no preaching. The deed has been done already. Should she abort or live with the consequences?
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She made the choice of having unprotected sex so let her leave with the consequeces. After all how much be gold circle condom?
Murder is a sin. I say give birth and enjoy life still!
hmmm...i will advise you in two ways.
First of all, where is the father and what is his say in this?
1) if you know that u cant take care of the baby at this age and time, i will advise you to abort the pregnancy. you have a whole life ahead of you and i tell you, an unexpected baby can pull u down and make u frustrated esp if you are the only one taking care of the baby and the father and his family dont want him.
2) Keep the pregnancy!!!! bear the disgrace and all the insults but look and learn to love the child. the earlier you start loving, the better cos u would get used to loving the baby and no matter what anyone says, u wont feel hurt BUT be ready for life and all that it brings with it as a young single mom....
Above all, i PLEAD with you to ask God to give you the grace to go through all these. look for His love and serve him diligently cos my dear, you will need His strength o
we shouldnt criticize or blame the gal. the deed is done and so it is ways to help her out and not make her feel any worse...how much is gold circle u say? even if it is cheaper than ignorance, whats done is done....its help she is asking for here.
well,d deed has been done & am sure u av been expelled already so dear,jst keep d baby & give it your all with or without d father.
I think she should keep the baby. The baby shouldn't be punished for the mistake of its parents.
It will also help her accept responsibility and be more careful about her choices in life. Telling her to have an abortion, will be like permitting her to get pregnant again and again, after all, there is a "giant eraser" to make it all go away!
Let her keep the baby!!!
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